1.02.2012

best fortune cookie ever

this is the story of how I told scotty I was pregnant...
{warning:  I only spared a few details}

A little over 3 months ago I woke up to a normal Friday morning and went to the bathroom to get ready for work. I had been feeling kinda crappy but since I recently got off of birth control it was totally normal for me to feel bad and to be a couple days late.  Being my curious self I took a preg test anyways just to get my hopes down and prepare myself for another torturous period. I didn't think anything of it and continued with my normal morning routine. When I got out of the shower I remembered and look down at the stick in disbelief. I stood there dripping wet, all by myself, in total shock. It was positive.

I'm pretty optimistic but when it came to getting pregnant I prepared myself for the worst. Even though it would be frustrating I was totally prepared to try for at least six months before I even started tracking ovulation and wait at least a year before I became obsessed and go to the doc for help. I watched my oldest sis try for years and I just assumed it might also take long for me... so I was fully ready to not be disappointed once a month. That being said, Scotty and I were trying and hoping and praying but not expecting anything to happen right away.

I don't really remember what happened during the next couple minutes... I was freaking out. I had to tell somebody... I knew scotty couldn't answer his phone and I couldn't say it over text/email. How was I supposed to get ready for work now?! Scotty was in the middle of his OBGYN rotation and had been really busy with long hours. I hadn't seen him really in the last couple days and I was looking forward to our Friday date night. Could I wait til then to tell him?! Being close with my coworker Mandy (who also found out she was preg that week, crazy!) I texted her and ran over to work.  Working together for over a year now we knew each other really well and had talked about ways I could tell my family when I got pregnant.  Since I couldn't tell Scotty right away I thought it would be so awesome to surprise him in one of those ways! For lunch we went over to P.F Changs and told the manager what I wanted to do... I grabbed some fortune cookies, made reservations, and bought a gift card.  We came back to work and after many attempts we put the same fortune in two of the cookies. (wrap the cookie in a wet paper towel and microwave for a couple seconds... then quickly replace fortune while cookie is still warm) We even glued that plastic covering back over them and you couldn't even tell!!  

Work was agonizing to say the least. I finally got a text from him around 4 asking how I was doing... I told him I had won a gift card from my Rewards & Recognition committee and I had made reservations at 6. He was stoked for free dinner and didn't even question it because I had won gift cards before. When I initially saw him it was hard to not share the huge news but by this point (and after all my planning) I could wait another hour. With the fortune cookies in my purse, we finally went to dinner. When I told the hostess my name she smiled at me and the other waitress's all gave that cutesy look at us and totally almost gave something away (scott says he didn't even notice but it was obvious haha) They sat us at a nice private booth and our waitress was super nice. I don't know if I was just anxious or cause I was sick being preg but chinese food was the last thing that sounded good to me..  I barely ate anything. gag.  We had a great dinner though- we hadn't really spent time together in awhile so it was nice to catch up and hear all about his rotation and his experience delivering babies. At one point he even said "its totally normal to take a year to get pregnant for like 80% of women"... little did he know he was about to get the biggest surprise of his life. I acted like I had to go to the bathroom to give our waitress the fortune cookies and told her to bring them out asap cause I couldn't wait any longer. We weren't even done with our meal but she brought them over and Scott picked one up right away. I could see the super glue on the plastic wrap where we had carefully put it back together. I tried my hardest to continue in our conversation but I was just staring at the cookie as he opened it up and read it. His expression was priceless... total shock/confusion. I can't say his exact words since he swore haha I guess my well worded fortune was so legit he thought it was just a coincidence cause we were just talking about pregnancy. He looked at me and I said "its true... I found out this morning... I'm pregnant!!!" AH he had no clue, we hugged and laughed and smiled and got really nervous/giddy as reality sunk it... it was such an AMAZING moment. I was so happy that he finally knew and that we were going to have a baby!!! The manager came over and said congrats and that he had told some of the tables around us.. one even payed our bill but remained anonymous. I'm pretty proud of myself for keeping it a secret, everything worked out perfect!

What was going to just be our normal every friday night-date night will now be a night we will never forget. We coudn't be more excited for this next chapter in our life :)            


1.01.2012

2011 highlights

{2011 highlights}

Went snowshoeing when everything closed down since wisconsin got the most snow in one day that it has had in over 10 years. saw janet jackson in vegas with my sisters. Celebrated my 24th bday. I survived the lack of husband during his busiest year by watching Friends. celebrated our 3rd year anniversary. Scott passed the step 1 boards!! I helped out with young women girls camp. Stayed at a b&b in Door County for a little summer getaway. went to nauvoo with my mom and lil sis. Scott started his 3rd year of med school with easy rotations. spent a lot of time being photographers and learning how to edit. went to north carolina for the baby blessing of my 4th niece Ava. Spent a week at myrtle beach. Officially been at my job for a year. went to chicago with my girls. Found out I was pregnant! dressed up as snooki and pauly d for Halloween. Had a delish thanksgiving at the Jackmans surrounded by friends. Celebrated scottys 28th bday.
 Had an amazing christmas back in utah with family that we already miss so much.

Here's to 2011!!
 We had an amazing year.  2012 will be even more amazing... We are happy to finally tell the world that baby carver is due June 21 :)



12.20.2011

Merry Christmas {love the carvers}

hope your holidays are bright






{of course I couldn't just choose one pic cause they were so fun to take... merry christmas!}

12.18.2011

candy cane lane

every year Scotty and I take a drive down
Candy Cane Lane
Its not really a lane...but rather an entire block of houses that are decorated like crazy. Santa is even there and hands out candy canes when you make a donation to some charity. Since we don't have snow yet and it still hasn't hit me that's its December... it was a great night to get us in the Christmas spirit!!




and my favorite.. the penguin house

12.17.2011

ugly sweater ~ eggnog party

on Saturday the Halls hosted a
ugly sweater eggnog party
and it was so fun to get together with everyone before we all leave for the holidays. We found some pretty ug sweaters...






12.11.2011

Happy Birthday Hubs

28!!
if you had a birthday shout HOORAY! we want to sing to you today. one year older and wiser too. Happy birthday, to YOU!

I keep giving scotty grief that he turned 28 but he reminded me that I'll be turning 25 next... we are getting old!
We usually can't celebrate Scottys birthday because it always around finals so we got excited that this would be the first year that we could actually go out... but his birthday happened to be on a Sunday haha. He was also on call Saturday night so we couldn't go out until Monday. We went to dinner at the Cheesecake Factory and it was so delish. It was so nice to have a good meal and be with my birthday boy. Seriously best hubsand ever...
 how did I get so lucky?!
I love you babes!

for his present he got a canon wide angle lense that brings in more light and takes really cool artsy pics.
He already loves playing around with it...

12.03.2011

miller time {weekend recap}

here in Wisco instead of going to Temple Square to see the lights we head over to Miller Valley. Not to down play the ghettoness but they actually put on a really cool light show thats fun to check out. Very festive. Although its starting to get freezing cold, it was a nice date night with the hubs to get us into the Christmas spirit. We went out to Noodles & Co. for dinner and spend the night cuddled up watching Elf.






On sat we went to the Halls to play a Dance 3 game on their wii.. it was so hilarious to watch the boys get there dance on. Jess and I are getting pretty good at Britney Spears (I felt like I was 13 again dancing to oops I did it again haha) We made hot chocolate with their cocomotion and chilled after so the boys could watch the Badger football game. It was a fun and relaxing weekend :)

11.27.2011

Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving!
Although we don't have any pictures to prove it, Scotty and I had a great Thanksgiving break :) Some holidays are just not the same living away from home but we made the most of it by getting together with friends and enjoying a fabulous meal. Since we didn't host we spent the morning putting up Christmas decorations and watching the Packers game. We ate at the Jackmans with some other couples and we all went over to the Logans to meet up with more couples for desert. Everything was so delish!

Scotty and I spend the rest of the weekend decorating, shopping and relaxing! We have so much to be grateful for at this time. Just to name a few of our many blessings...

amazing friends
scott being a 3rd year med student
my job
the convenience of my job
our health
loving and supportive families
our time we've been able to spend together this semester (this will change in a few months)
our apartment (it finally feels like home)
our car (even though we only have one, at least the one we have works and hasn't been stolen)
our supportive church members
our safety (we recently got a new girl in young womens who is from Mexico and came here to live with her aunt & uncle because of the violence in her neighborhood... makes Wisconsin not seem as dangerous)
clean water 
peanut butter and jelly sandwich's (my staple for every lunch) 
leave in conditioner
zumba & yoga
woodmans (a less expensive grocery store so we can get the most for our limited amount of $)  
cells phones
skype
imessage (so we can text through his itouch when his phone doesn't have service)
an amazing husband 

Our life right now is seemingly perfect and with only a year and a half left in Milwaukee we are making the most of our time and looking forward to our future.

Life is good

11.18.2011

twihards

Yes the much anticapated Breaking Dawn came out today and you know I went and loved it. The hype of it all isn't as big in Wisconsin which made it even more hilarious to show up in our twlight shirts and be the first in line. We went with the Halls and Thoresteds. Fun night!
our differences bring us together ha!

the hubs sported their wolf shirts, such troopers! Prob not what they wanted to be doing on their Friday night but hey marriage is all about supporting each others passions.  And don't  lie you liked the shirts we got you ... ;) 


11.16.2011

christmas wish list

wish list 




 Total wish list... even though these things would be nice, Christmas to me is going home. I am so ready to see family. I really need to start getting our present shopping done.
We'll be in Utah Dec 23-Jan 3 :)
Count down begins after Thanksgiving...